Are you planning about getting married to your partner soon? If yes, then hold on a bit.
Marriage is one of the most important events of everyone’s life and naturally, you want to have a happy married life that will last until your death. But life is not about all sunshine. And your married life can shake dangerously too.
But how can you prevent serious conflicts?
In this article, you’re going to learn about 5 important things you should do before you get married. So, without further ado, let’s begin…
1. Have Some Fight With Your Partner Before Getting Married
If you’ve never fought with your partner over an issue, then you can never know how you two would react if any disagreement arises. Let’s think about this scenario for a moment. You two got married and suddenly face some disagreement. If you never speak out, then you’ll become depressed and even become passive-aggressive.
And then someday, these hidden feelings will burst out all of a sudden which may even lead to divorce. And no one wants that.
So, before getting married, make sure you two fight over little things. This way, you’ll understand how your partner will react to any kind of disagreement.
2. Get Out for An Adventure Together
Marriage is nothing less than an adventure. And you’ll have to face this unpredictable ride together for the rest of your life. So, to understand how strong your bond is and how you two will face any situation together if danger arrives.
That’s why you should consider going to an adventure together with your spouse. This way, you’ll learn how to make a perfect plan for your journey together and what alternatives measures you should take if the plan doesn’t work.
You just can’t miss it.
3. Have Sex with Your Partner Before Getting Married
This one may seem obvious but it’s one of the most important pieces of the puzzle or should I say, marriage. Trust me on this, finding out that your partner is sexually incompatible with you is worse than finding out that he or she is cheating on you.
This may lead to turning away from your partner and ultimately, divorce. So, make sure you have sex with your partner at least once before getting married. After all, there is nothing wrong with doing some future-proofing.
4. Get to Know Each Other’s Families
Getting married to your partner isn’t just bonding to your partner forever. You’re bonding with his or her family too. In other words, your partner’s family is your family too.
That’s why a healthy relationship with your partner’s family is necessary. Note, this doesn’t mean that you’ve to absolutely love your in-laws forcefully. But having mutual respect and trust is still crucial. After all, they’re the ones the love of your life has grown up with.
So, make sure you go and visit your spouse’s parents and family and spend quality time with them. If you’re truly genuine, then your partner’s family will eventually trust you. And that’s what you want to achieve.
5. Live with Each Other for Some Time
No matter how much confidence you’ve got that everything will be fine, suddenly having someone in your bedroom and sharing space is still a lot scary or at least shocking.
So, to avoid this sudden shock, try living with your partner for a couple of weeks or a month alone in one single room. This way, you’ll get to feel how it’s going to go after getting married. Plus, staying with your partner before getting married will make sure you get comfortable sharing space with her.
This way, you can have a marriage that will last forever.